cheetah I thought you said you only had one kid tho? I am so cofuzzled ..... But even tho I am not a parent I am a baby-sitter and I think just like the others said when all else fails its a pat on the bum.... with most of the baby-sitting I do the parents say don't be afraid to... if they won't listen but i have never had to. Once i faked it as a joke But really claped my hands behind the persons back to make te other think Before they act.